Orientation Toward Performance and Excellence: A Focus on Self-Development
Throughout his
life, Steve Jobs experimented with several modes of self-development. For example, Steve Jobs underwent primal
scream therapy, which Arthur Janov, a Los Angeles psychiatrist, developed and
popularized. Scream therapy is based on
the Freudian theory that repressed pains of childhood cause psychological
problems. Arthur Janov argued that
re-suffering these primal moments while fully expressing the pain—sometimes in
screams—could resolve these psychological problems. To Steve Jobs, this seemed preferable to talk
therapy, because it involved intuitive feeling and emotion, rather than
analyzing. He felt that reliving
childhood pains would lead to insight.
In late 1974,
Steve Jobs became involved in 12 weeks of therapy at the Oregon Feeling Center,
located in an old hotel in Eugene.
Robert Friedland, Steve Jobs’s guru from Reed College, ran this
center. While undergoing scream therapy,
Steve Jobs confided to friends about the intensity of his pain regarding being
put up for adoption and having no knowledge about his birth parents. Steve Jobs felt that he could better
understand himself if he knew more about his physical parents. To avoid hurting his adoptive parents, he
refrained from hiring a private investigator.
Rather, he spoke with his adoptive parents, Paul and Clara Jobs, and
learned that his birth parents had been graduate students at a university and
that his father was Syrian. He was
deeply angry about being put up for adoption.
While experiencing scream therapy and for a while afterwards, Steve Jobs
seemed to have found peace, improved confidence, and reduced feelings of
inadequacy.
There are other
examples of Steve Jobs’s focus on self-development. When he dropped out of college, he took up
Buddhism. At Apple, he was an active
learner, dropping in for learning sessions with staff. He distanced himself from his tendency to
shut people down, taking on new behaviors to allow others to open up and
contribute more comfortably. He accepted
input and applied it to making needed changes in himself.
Even his rivalry
with Bill Gates provides evidence of self-development. In May of 2007, then Wall Street Journal columnists Walt Mossberg and Karen Swisher got
Steve Jobs and Bill Gates together for a joint interview during an All Things
Digital conference. At first, Steve Jobs
spoke warily of Bill Gates. However,
when Bill Gates recalled how, while Steve Jobs was reviewing the software
Microsoft was making for the Macintosh, he would see Steve Jobs make decisions
based on people and product, doing things differently in a way that was magical,
Steve Jobs pointed out that Microsoft’s decoupled approach to technology was
faring better in the personal computer market than Apple’s theology of building
end-to-end products. Also in that
interview, Steve Jobs indicated that this difference in design philosophy led
Apple and him to less collaboration with others.
In his 2005
commencement address at Stanford University, Steve Jobs provided further
confirmation of self-development. He
mentioned that he dropped out of college, believing that everything would turn
out all right, signalling that had made a decision and committed to it. Stating that following his curiosity and
intuition led him into much of what he stumbled into showed how he trusted
himself and his intuition. Talking about
how the “lightness of being a beginner” replaced the “heaviness of being
successful” was synonymous with keeping an open mind. Finally, his referencing keeping faith even
though life hit him “in the head with a brick” suggested trusting and having
faith in his decisions and himself.
Source Notes
Throughout his
life, Steve Jobs experimented with several modes of self-development: Isaacson, W. (2011) Steve Jobs. New York, New York:
Simon & Schuster
In his 2005
commencement address at Stanford University:
Stanford 2005 Commencement address.
Retrieved from http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vja4GJv40xE
Excerpt from: Universal Characteristics in The Leadership of Steve Jobs
Available at http://www.amazon.com/dp/B081J113NT
In your opinion, how do leaders lead?
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ReplyDelete(1) Packard, D. (2005). The HP Way. New York, New York: HarperCollins Publishers